The New boy

There's a new boy in my life. I've nicknamed him 'the brit' because he lives in the UK. I'd love to use his real name, which is adorable, but to protect his identity I won't. I'm hoping someday I'll hear his voice as I'm sure it'll make me wet my panties just hearing his accent...I'm a sucker for an accent! Yum!

The brit isn't exactly new to me. We've been chatting through Twitter for a few months now and when we first met he was already owned by another Mistress. I respected his position, did not pressure him to leave her nor did I confuse him by giving him tasks to do for me. During the time that we've chatted I quickly began to feel that the Mistress he was with wasn't really suited for him and his personality. I let him know my thoughts on this but I did not promise that I'd be better suited for him.

I had a sense of being in his shoes, knowing what it feels like to feel so devoted to another yet not getting what you need from them and struggling to have the confidence to walk away. I went through the emotions of all that in the last few months with the alpha so I could definitely sympathize with the brit.

Recently, he informed me he was ready to leave her and asked if I was still willing to take him on. I am very proud of him for having that confidence to know he deserved a chance to find a Mistress that better suits his submission. Am I Her? Only time will tell.

For now, there is not complete ownership of the brit by me. We are taking things very slow as I need him to let go of his past ownership both mentally and emotionally. We're still in the 'get to know you' phase, building a bond and trust between us but so far it's going good. There's something about him that I just adore so I'm really hoping this works out well for both of us.