Tuesday, March 23, 2010

Where do we go from here?

I've decided it's time to get out from under the rock I've been living under, get myself out there and start meeting people. I won't be able to explore what I want from the lifestyle if I stay hidden behind a computer screen.

I've recently been chatting with two new people through Fetlife, one is a Dom, one wants to explore his submissive side. Which raises the question of why is it that I seem to attract those that 'think' they want to be submissive? Why can't I find someone that KNOWS he's submissive and wants to spend time with me? I suppose I'll have to ponder that for a bit.

After a few days of chatting with these guys they have each expressed in meeting in person. Now normally this would cause me to pull in the troops and make a hasty retreat but I've decided that is getting me nowhere, fast. Certainly being careful and safe is the key here but from this point forward I will be more receptive to meeting in person sooner rather than later.

Wish me luck and I'll keep you all posted!!

1 comment:

  1. Re: guys who don't know if they're submissive or not. You'll eventually be able to quickly determine if they are submissive or not just from the first few conversations. It's a learning process.

    I'm proud of you for getting out there and meeting people!